Written with energy and honesty, this powerful, thought–provoking memoir describes a life dominated by an abusive father, and explores some of the African traditional customs that are still expected of women today. Set in the province of KwazuluNatal, South Africa, Zazah Khuzwayo tells of the frustrations of growing up with a loving, intelligent but uneducated mother. Zazah paints a picture of a difficult and painful life, but at the same time it is inspiring to watch how she develops a fighting spirit and learns to stand up to her father.